Making time with your child
these memories stay a life time.
Exercising to exhaustion or stay at work till very late will be the last things, you will remember. TV, videos, newspapers, advertising is sliding in “The right way to have a happy life” There is no right or wrong way to have your life. Question “what are your desires.” All the normal things music, enjoy being with friends and family, few drinks, great meal or a cup of coffee. Yep that would do it.
What about TIME Freedom?Every day, every minute is filled up, FULL. Are you happy now or tired? It is so easy to fill up in life, do you remember the smell of an old type scented rose, what about remembering that book you read in the sun, a lazy Sunday of quiet time for you and the family.
Families sitting at the table, eating together – yes, our parents had to tell us our manners until we turned old, then you got it. Time freedom, Freedom for families’ together, freedom for couples together. Have a look into your future, how will it be for your family the way we are going right now.
No time for each other now.
Remember cats in the cradle, listen to it. Bottom line, Dad GOT no time for son, WORK no connection, son grows up NO time for dad, now Son has no time. We all want to have an exciting life but choose what you fill up your life with. Once that week has gone, it’s gone. Why parents are on the run more than ever before? Advertisers sell “fear”. If your children are not doing it all, they feel somehow their children are missing out or you are holding your children back from their full potential. Ten years’ time children will be saying I’m Bored…… been there, done that or do you want connection like these two
Thanks Dad
…….next…….then what will you do to entertain them what will you do then. They never learned….. to play…. or….. Entertain themselves.
STOP, ADVERTISERS….. THEY ARE…… SELLING TO YOUR…… NOT GOOD ENOUGH…….. ISSUES that’s why we do it without thinking.
There is another part, Parents, you have already giving up on. There are many areas today we are looking at creating your space to be happy in yourself and your partners. Step back, sit down and have a serious look.
We want our children to be successful. If your happiness is totally based on what your children are doing, getting and what you give them to be happy. I promise you it will not be a 2 Way Street, unless you have showed your children through your experiences of helping other looking after your own parents, your children being there too, given the gift, of caring your own children will not do that to you. Our children copy what will do, not what we say, you hope they will be giving back to you, only when you show give back to yourself and teach them to care for you by say NO.
Well we don’t think about that part we know that rule. In order to know how to be in life, there are other side that are helpful in achieving this life of work, play and being ourselves is the balance to give to others, to receive from others and to be in balance in life.
All your dreams come true, over time, it is amazing ride, our experiences, it’s the feelings, the struggle that has us, who we really are and who we become out of those experiences. Struggle helps us to push forward change we do something better or start from the start because the basic level needs stronger foundation.
Going into Adult life, we will be making our own decisions, being responsible for your own actions, standing and making decision as we move down that road,
(like a car we might go for a drive to the beach and we know the road and there may be a truck in the middle of the road you will stop and take a new action on what is happening then start driving down the road to the beach) So you learned to do something different and then continue on after. These are the skills that are being taught to our children. Leave school and getting a job takes 10 years to become the top manager and this from all the experience that person gets on the job experiences, children now when they leave high school, get a job, expect to be manager in 1 years with the big money to go with it.
Parents, don’t forget you can create that time, you are the parents of your children and you create your life as parents, the same way your parents created yours life. They did the best with what they had at the time.
There is no perfect parent’s experiencesas parents and we all know there was not a manual and we would not open that manual anyway. We brought a new TV and just put it together and did not even open the instructions.
Next time your children want something, first say would I have got this when I was their age if the answer is no then say No. Put that amount away for yourself, as part of something you have been wanting and start having those things you desire. May be even talk with your child how can you get those things you want earn it and get a job, this all building a balanced person.
Parents they do make mistakesas we all do. How would you know if it was a mistake if don’t have mistaken. So just love them for having a go. Design your life, create a family lifestyle to be relaxed and have time together NOW.
Time is all we do have control over, use it well and love every minute, every day, every month of every year To Your Lifestyle and Natural Therapies Business Success Helen Brougham Lifestyle Freedom.
Helen Brougham is a women’s Empowering Living Coach who specializes in guiding and inspiring Mums of all ages to reconnect with and take ownership of their most deeply cherished dreams and desires, so they can be happy, healthy, fulfilled and deeply connected to the people they love most - their families.
She gently assists women who are feeling overwhelmed and exhausted to finally release the trauma and emotional baggage they have been carrying for years, so they can heal and do whatever their hearts desire … including being the best Mum they can be for their children.
Helen’s 25 plus years working as a remedial and pregnancy massage therapist and extensive professional training as a certified life coach have uniquely equipped her to help her clients get positive, life-changing results quickly and easily.
Helen is Mum to 4, Grand Mum to 5, a natural therapies practitioner, author and avid traveler. She is passionate about empowering women around the world to grow through life's challenges with ease and grace. Her best-selling book, "Empowering You & Your Family" offers a down to earth approach to Love, Peace and Joy for Mums everywhere.
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