Getting Out Of The BOX

by Helen

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First Let me tell you a story and see if you can relate with the parts that are the same.

Down on the Beach
                   There is very old fishermen story called “Leaving the CRAB Hole”
There in the sand was a hole where crabs live, this one CRAB, she was feeling like this place was not for her any more as she felt she wanted to explore outside and what else was available, as she looked around and took actions, seeking advice from others in the hole and some who had come back before making her choice to stay or going.

Crab on the beach life in sand

All they keep saying was, it would not be right, you must stay here, adding, no, you can’t do that, and the next question was “why not” from her. Don’t question me do as your told!! After that if I mentioned it  again they became angry and would yelled, even laugh at her, even worst would say where they thought I got it wrong another time to have me feel worst. This a similar story to the Tall Poppy ISSUE

Well she was scared to leave even though she knew she could not stay in the hole. When she it was time to leave she followed her heart and having an awareness of what is around her, a friend will help you get started, set this up, so you have support for at least 6 months, and in the human world money saved, while you learn how it goes out there.

You may be disappointed with what others have said just believe they want to keep you safe and love you and they will miss you. You will be back with a new knowledge and understanding. Keep believing and know that your passion and determination will help you all the way.

From human direction when I write she it can he too.
Many are standing up and Frustrated_Womannot going to be treated badly by anybody again.

Yes you will be tested. Others will make it your fault but remember they have had more practice than you at speaking up. You will get stronger and keep learning from what you are learning from your mentor.How do you know it is not yours?
Watch how they are around other people, can you see her with her family or does she/he do it to many people. Does she/he make anybody small around her that they can’t be themselves.

Why are they like that?
Lack of discipline of self and a trauma which causes behavior changes.

In the work place

In the work place they have the behavior and have been asked to have training in behavior management training but refused to take the training and companies are removing these people out as these behaviors are not tolerated in the workplace and productivity is low as this cost mo.ney.

Now for the crab and you it is time of discovery of you, a discovery of what you like and don’t like. Feel how much more relaxed and how you sleep better and how everything is brighter. what I found I had shut down because you think it was all your fault.

out of the box 2             It is very open, and free to move around in all direction

Now Your Out of The Box

What next?

In the WORLD we are surrounded by comparing ourselves with everyone else around us and yet we are very UNIQUE in every way. Why would we want to be LIKE anyone else.

Advertising WANT us to want, what they are selling
Get the Credit Card lets go shopping to feel better, leaves us disappointed, guilt and what to do
with the stuff that have been brought, HIDING the PURCHASES or giving it all away.

Being OUT of BOX.
Is where we are going from here!!!
Listen for when we are being ourselves, we get to create what has us happy, what feel exciting and what we give to others freely and have to ATTITUDE to deal with anything!

I had a amazing dream and the realization as a young mum that I was going to  be courageous, empowering and inspiring mum’s to become power houses in their life and in their families with Burning Out.

What I was so humbled by was their knowing the woman in them felt so right and their clarity so quickly when mentoring these empowering women is that they wanted something they were not sure what it was.
BUT as soon as they heard it they stepped OUT OF the BOX and got the information.

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