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Happy and Relaxed Family

I hear it all the time on the TV advertising about the tablets that are so wonderful the quick fix, for back pain, neck pain and leg pain people are buying is the next best thing.

Months later they discover a link to strokes. No more advertising on that product People want a quick fix…….. I know they don't know the ads are very convincing that popping a pill will fix the problem. 

For many years before knowing what I know now, I had stress and was overloaded from working hard on a farm with four small children. I did not know what muscles were or why I had pain I just wanted to feel better.

The herb shop …. I thought going to the health food and herbs shop would fix me, but never felt better. I had always been a person that did not take tablets and came from a family that did not take them either. I was worn out and had enough; my grandparents died 8 days apart. I had not experienced this kind stress before called grief …. I'm told now that under huge stress you can get sick with the flu.

Well my four children, my husband, I all had the flu and were really sick. The only time I went to the Doctor is when I needed stitches from injuries like cutting the end of my finger off and birth of my four children. But this was different I could not seem to shake the flu. Weeks later I felt exhausted I went back to the Doctor and said to him, I need something, anything. Months went by taking what Doctor had described were relaxers.

Months went by I seem better but the dry mouth and the feel being sedated and I could feel anxiety was trying to get and it was awful and I wanted to stop taking those things. But anxiety just kept coming back.

Back to my search ……. Six months later I went and had a massage, I did not know about massage back then living the country area and I had never heard of it before. I was a little scared did not know how it went and what to do. I found after that massage, I felt light in my body, my mind had stop chattering and all the noise was quiet I felt peaceful for the first time in a long time.

That was it I have found it…..Massage wow…. I felt so much better; I drove home from that massage a different person a relaxed and calm mum.

Three months later… I went from the country area to the city to learn massage professional and when came home, I brought a brand new massage table and each of my children and husband got their first massage. It was a new experience and they loved it. Now 21 years later my children still love their massage but now my grandchildren have massage.

My grandson was always jumping around, full of energy and excited …. When people came around he was silly and this day my daughter thought I’m going to give him a massage on his back and his feet next weekend. It turned out that he loved his feet being massaged.

What I noticed the next week before my daughter had said anything was, my grandson was so much calmer around us, while we were talking and after he was speaking calmer and not rushing to get the words out, his words were clear to understand, what he was saying and he was even walking slower.

At school his reading was easier…… His talking had improved because was talking slower because his mind was not going a hundred mile an hour and in the playground made friends instead of the other children  not wanting to play with him which improved his confidences. Even the teacher asked my daughter about the positive change

So what was it that the massage did…… With the techniques that she used released the stress and tension from his muscles and mind. It took the overloading, high level of anxiety energy down and calmed him and he relaxed natural by these techniques she had learn from me.

Need to see… The teacher wanted him to be seen by behaviour problems therapist, learning problems and speech therapist and Doctors prescription.  He did not need to see these people because he had improved so much. Often the down to earth ways of helping the family is through massage and spending time one on one with our children but also having massaged yourself to be clear calm and relaxed to make better choices.  A few months ago did you hear  7/10 children are taking some kind of tablets every day.

What happens in childhood … Continues in adulthood and your children need time and space to be children and grow into life.  As a parent you grow with them and show them the way that is in down to earth approach to give children and ourselves the tools that are long lasting and give love, peace and joy throughout life. I would love to hear you on how to find natural balance well being for the whole family is going and you are their leader to give them the path to follow with easy and grace. I been following this path with mums and their children, grandparents with grandchildren and with mums having empowering  knowledge, mums can balance their whole family with ease and grace.

Helen been has been serving and helping mums with children for over 21 years throughout Australia and her own learning and transformation first and in Massage clinic as massage practitioner in own down to earth approach to life.

Helen as a Mum and as a grandparent, enjoys being in family. In  her clinic coaching mums to be empowered to look from a different direction and bring fulfillment to all families. and is releasing her first e-book called  How to have a Thriving Family, e-book 7 simple yet powerful strategies to effectively reduce stress, which uses the ancient art of massage to remove stress and bring about positive shift in your families.

Bringing your family to  the Down to Earth approach, many of you are already on this path and you don't know it.  Often you are told by others, you have got it wrong,  they think you are lazy or you are holding your child back. Does this sound familiar?   Join me GET your kindle e-book on amazon first

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 How to help stress in children by empowering parents

Often it hard to admit that confusion, a foggy head and your on the run with no time left. Everything you do, you analysis was that good or bad or did I get it right. We ask our husband or partner for confirmation. This is what Stress free children is all about. It is giving tools and be of service that really works in a down to earth way. When life is calmer and our children are happy at home, they are sleeping well and they are happy at school and  happy with themselves.

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